How to Find Love if You are Busy all the Time

How to Find Love if You are Busy all the Time
Put dates in your work diary or share your favorite hobby with a potential partner. Work, family, friends, self-care, hobbies - all of these are enough to keep anyone busy. Would you like to add dates to the list? Just thinking like that makes my head spin. But when you want love, a busy schedule…
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Love as Medicine

Love as Medicine
How would you define love? Is it that leap of excitement in your stomach when you see someone you care deeply about, or the cosmic oneness you feel when making love? Perhaps it’s the familiar bond you experience with your parents, friends, or siblings or the transcendent state you can sometimes access in deep meditation. It’s…
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How to Be Sure That You’ll Make the Right Relationship Decisions

How to Be Sure That You’ll Make the Right Relationship Decisions
There are lots of decisions to make when you’re in a relationship. Some are mundane: what to eat for dinner, which movie to see, or where to go on vacation. Other decisions are more important for your relationship's future: when to say "I love you," whether to move in together, whether to stay together, and whether…
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Why Every Marriage Is a Bait and Switch

Why Every Marriage Is a Bait and Switch
Someone's real self emerges to us over time, not all at once. I like to ask my couples, when they’re complaining about a particular aspect of their partner’s behavior, “Well, why do you think you would have married someone who…?” Their answer is, inevitably, “He/she wasn’t this way when we married.” Every marriage is a bait and…
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