Romantic relationships are complex. They require constant joint work on each other's personalities, on feelings and everything that unites people in a family. Many people forget about this, and therefore their relationship collapses immediately after the end of the candy-bouquet period, full of bright emotions and hormones.
In search of that same partner for life, both men and women make the same mistakes, choosing for absolutely the wrong qualities. Because of this, millions of people around the world suffer in unhappy marriages, simply because they paid attention to everything but the really significant. If you want to find a girl for life, you should take a closer look at the following important things.
1 Openness to communication
Most people keep a lot of secrets not only from others, but also from their partners, and sometimes even from themselves. Closeness is not the best quality for a long-term relationship. Of course, if you just met, and the girl does not want to share her innermost thoughts with you, this is normal. Another thing is when you are together, and she does not show a craving for communication beyond general phrases. For a healthy relationship, close communication is important, which overcomes all the barriers built in life. There will be secrets, and that's okay too. The main thing is that the girl allows herself to be read like an open book in most moments.
2 High score for honesty and trust
When psychologists studied couples who had lived together for 30 years or more, they found that most of them cited honesty and trust in each other as the most important qualities along with love. If your girlfriend is very jealous and does not trust you, this may not be your option. Healthy relationships are built on openness to each other and the absence of reasons for doubt. Even if such reasons appear, partners do not cross the line until the very end, when emotions splash out without any measure, and logic is turned off.
Honesty and the trust that forms behind it create an atmosphere of reliability and security. When there is confidence in the future and there are no regular triggers of stress like jealousy, any conflicts will be much easier to overcome together.
3 The power to take responsibility for your actions in difficult times
Many men complain that their girlfriends constantly shift responsibility onto their own shoulders or someone else, and behave like little children who have not learned to take responsibility for their actions. We can only sympathize with them, because irresponsibility is visible almost from the very first days of not only relationships, but even simple communication, and they themselves made such a choice.
If you do not want to step on the same rake as thousands of other guys, watch how a girl copes with situations where you need to answer for your words or actions. This is especially true in conflict situations, where she is clearly not right. This will show whether the girl is adequate and whether she is able to admit her mistakes. If yes, then this means that you will have much less empty quarrels, of course, if you yourself know how to take responsibility and also understand that you can make mistakes.
4 Understanding at a glance
This can be attributed to something from the category of mysticism, but even people who do not yet know each other well enough seem to feel what their partner will say now, and continue for them. Such mutual understanding is a real gift, one of the important signs that you can not only get along with each other, but also almost completely eliminate conflicts due to ridiculous situations. Many quarrels arise from misunderstandings, and they regularly ruin relationships. If there is this invisible connection between you and you are not only able to compromise, but also do it with pleasure, even something serious is unlikely to quarrel with you.
5 Wanting to be around no matter what
Today, many men and women have become opportunists who want only one thing - to bathe in pleasure. Whether it's a relationship, friendship, or other means of interaction, they will be by your side when things are going well. But it is worth something bad to happen, and they will immediately begin to leave one by one.
Here, as in the famous wisdom “a friend in need is known”, the same principle works. If a girl, even when you have difficulties, does not go anywhere and, on the contrary, shows even greater care, then you have made the right choice.
6 Support mixed with challenge
In many articles about ideal girls, you can find advice in the style of "look for the one who will support you in everything." This utopian phrase is believed and then offended when their woman does not shine with enthusiasm when she hears about another undertaking.
Remember that a girl with whom you can build a really long-term relationship can and should stop you in cases where you choose the wrong path. Yes, she will support your dreams and endeavors, but she will also challenge you to become the best version of yourself. Sometimes it will seem that she is pushing you to do something that you don’t want, just out of spite or in the typical “woman again dripping brains”. No, it doesn’t drip, but it tries to reach out to that side of your personality that was crushed by the lazy and timid part.
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