In healthy relationships, partners try to help each other with goals and plans, develop good habits and character traits, and also know what boundaries should not be crossed.
You are not ashamed to be yourself
Personal growth is the process by which a person develops useful skills and traits without losing individuality. This happens when partners try to accept each other with all the shortcomings and are ready to work on themselves not because someone asks for it, but because you want to make yourself and the relationship better. They do not need to force themselves to seem like they are not in order to achieve love, understanding and approval from someone who is nearby.
In unhealthy relationships that hinder personal growth, on the contrary, partners try to change each other for their own comfort, because of ideas about the ideal. Often they allow themselves harsh condemnation and criticism of each other, which contribute not to development, but to the deterioration of self-esteem and mental health.
You can talk openly about important things
In relationships that promote personal growth, partners can talk openly about things that are important to them. It promotes trust and understanding and helps develop useful skills. People learn how to deal with conflicts correctly, express their emotions in a way that a partner understands them, talk about difficult things, seek compromises and solve problems together. All this comes in handy not only in romantic relationships, but also in other areas of life.
When partners often hide their dreams, plans, aspirations and opinions on certain issues from each other, it becomes much more difficult to develop and grow. This may be due to fear that a loved one will condemn or laugh at your ideas, as well as in order to avoid scandal and criticism.
You are not afraid to ask for help
Not every person is able to ask for help, even people close to him. This may be because of the fear of showing their vulnerability and seeming weak, as well as for other reasons. But in some situations, it is help from a partner and others that helps you grow, such as when someone gives you advice that helps you review your habits and make a decision that can improve your life.
Both your goals and her goals are equally important.
Each person has his own goals, both you and your woman. For each of you to grow as a person, they must be equally important. It is unlikely that you will be able to build strong relationships and achieve success if your dreams and plans are constantly postponed until later.
You can make decisions without being pressured by your partner
In a healthy relationship, partners trust each other and respect each other's personal space. They discuss problems and make joint decisions when necessary, and do not pressure if it is up to one person to make a choice. It helps to grow as a person, not to be afraid of mistakes and to feel the support of the person who is next to you.
Are you proud of each other's accomplishments?
Achievements, even the smallest victories, are an indicator of personal growth. When your girlfriend is proud of what you do and can rejoice in your success, it will be easy and pleasant for you to develop and work on yourself.
But if she devalues and belittles your merits, believes that you are not doing enough, although you are giving 100%, this makes you feel unmotivated, as well as doubt your abilities. This attitude not only prevents you from developing, but also harms your self-esteem.
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