How to flirt over text so that a girl wants to meet you

Correspondence on the VeronikaLove website may well lay the foundation for a relationship in reality. But in order to make a good impression on women, you need to develop communication skills and learn how to flirt correctly.

Here are a few rules to follow if you want your flirty messages to make a girl want to go on a date with you.

Make your greeting unique
Skip the usual “Hi, how are you?” if you want to interest a girl. Instead, try to make the greeting fun and original.

For example, you can start an impromptu discussion: “Pineapple on pizza: yes or no?” Or share with her your opinion on a popular meme and ask her what show she's been binge-watching for a few nights.

Don't be afraid to write something extraordinary and funny, memorable, but simple. This is what catches you, even if it sounds stupid, but the “standard” greeting phrases are not.

Don't overdo it with persistence
Although it is important to show interest in a girl and initiate communication, being too assertive in correspondence can backfire on you.

By inviting a stranger on a date without really talking, you are dooming yourself to failure, since few women are ready to take a risk and meet in reality the first person they meet on the Internet.

It's always important to find a balance between showing genuine interest and respecting the other person's boundaries. Avoid using ambiguous or overt language, especially in the early stages of a conversation. It's best to focus on building rapport and creating a sense of intrigue and excitement in the girl.

Ask questions related to her interests
Showing genuine interest is always catchy, and is also a great way to start a conversation online and move on to flirting.

Ask the girl about her hobbies, favorite band, plans for the weekend. You can also use this trick: if she talks about something, make it a reason for an additional question. For example, if a girl writes that she plans to sit with a friend and eat sushi, write: “Well, now I want sushi too. What are your other three favorite dishes?

Firstly, this will allow you to get to know her better, and at the same time hint to her that you have common interests and preferences.

Don't manipulate
Flirting should be a fun and positive experience - only in this case the girl you like will want to meet you in person.

If you want this to happen, avoid manipulative dialogue, such as deliberately causing jealousy or giving ambiguous signals to attract attention.

When meeting and flirting with girls, focus on honesty, openness, and transparency in your interactions. Show attention, and don’t demonstrate what manipulation techniques you know. Healthy and successful flirting is always built on trust, so make sure your actions reflect genuine intentions.

Give her sincere compliments
Of course, you can't overlook compliments if you want to flirt. It is important that they are sincere and specific. Vague “You are beautiful” sounds banal and very boring.

Emphasize small details of the appearance of the girl you like, her personal qualities or some achievements that she managed to mention. This will make her feel special and be more open to continuing communication and flirting.

Be short and positive
If you want to interest a girl and take your communication offline, be brief and positive. Messages that are not too long are easier to understand and leave less room for misinterpretation. In addition, they do not overload the girl with a ton of unnecessary information.

Don't stop communicating without explanation
It is very unpleasant when the interlocutor suddenly becomes silent for several hours, and maybe even days. He seems to have no respect for you at all and is not interested in communicating with you.

So, if you want your online flirting to develop into real dates, never leave the Internet in English. Be sure to write to the girl that you will go to bed, do important things, step away from the computer for a couple of hours, and so on. This will let her know that you value her time and are committed to continuing communication.

And if you no longer want to correspond with her because your interest has faded, try to explain this honestly and respectfully. It’s better to upset her with a sincere confession, but look like a decent guy, than to blacklist her and leave her with resentment in her soul.

The only situation when you can quit correspondence without explanation is if the girl behaves aggressively, manipulatively and disrespectfully. In other cases, it is better to express your feelings and ensure a peaceful conclusion to the communication.