How to determine what kind of relationship you need

If the relationship with the girls still doesn’t work out in any way, perhaps it’s not a bad karma, but the fact that you just don’t really understand what you want. We will tell you how to decide what you need from communication with the Lady's and what type of communication to choose.

You want to be sure of your exclusivity.

If it is important for you to be sure that there are only two of you in a relationship, you are in monogamy. This is a popular type of relationship in our society, and all because it is the most socially approved. Due to the fact that culture and mass media promote monogamy, many perceive such relationships as the only possible and correct ones by default. However, this is not so, and fidelity also needs to be negotiated.

Monogamy is good because it is the most predictable and stable type of relationship. It is easy to feel confident in it, because there is an agreement between partners that they do not consider other people in a romantic way.

You are able to have feelings for several people.

If you believe you can have feelings for multiple people, polyamory may be the type of relationship you need. Polyamorous partners immediately announce that they are important to each other, but not exclusive. Unlike open relationships, all connections here are serious and meaningful.

Cons: sometimes there are many difficulties in relationships even with one partner - imagine how many of them there are in a polyamorous relationship. In addition, a sense of ownership and jealousy sometimes make themselves felt.

Not ready to share your life with someone else.

Perhaps you are not interested in relationships at this period of your life: you are not ready to become attached, there are many difficulties at work or in other areas, you are preparing to move. At the same time, you still want to spend time with a pretty girl. The main thing is to immediately tell the girl about your intentions.

As soon as you enter into a relationship, you feel miserable.

Met dozens of girls and it's not that; as soon as the relationship enters a stable phase, you want to run away; you don't really understand if you need anyone at all. If all these feelings are familiar to you - perhaps the only person with whom you should find out and create a healthy relationship is yourself.

Try to give up altogether for a while from any close contact with the opposite sex. Focus on your feelings, desires and priorities. The more clearly you understand what you want, the more likely you are to get it.