9 Dream Guy Traits You Can Learn

Surely you have thought more than once about what the dream guy of any girl looks like. So, neither an athletic physique, nor an ideal hairstyle, nor the amount of money on a bank card is something of a priority when meeting. If a girl wants a serious relationship, she first of all pays attention to the words and actions of a man, due to his personal qualities. But even if you do not have the qualities that we have collected in this collection, do not despair - they can be learned.

1 Attention to detail.

It is really important for girls that a man remember some significant dates, notice changes in appearance, understand their hints. And all this can be easily learned by simply starting to develop your mindfulness. Make notes about when you first kissed, when you started dating or decided to move in together so that later you can give small gifts these days or at least just congratulate the girl verbally. When it seems to you that something has changed in a girl, be sure to ask her about it. If there really are changes, she will be very glad that you noticed, and if there weren’t any, you won’t lose anything just by giving her a nice compliment. Listen to what the girl says or shows you: she shares with you what she likes. If you are attentive, you will never have problems in the style of "what to give her."

2 Ability to make beautiful compliments.

Ask yourself: how many compliments do you know and how many of them do you use. There are compliments that have long become boring to everyone, they no longer delight anyone, and sometimes even cause irritation. If you tell your girlfriend the same thing every day, try expanding your vocabulary. The easiest thing you can do is find a list of non-banal compliments and memorize a dozen new or well-forgotten, old words for you. You can also learn how to make simple, but no less pleasant compliments from yourself, noting the positive qualities of a girl, praising not only her appearance, but also her character traits, her actions, paying attention to her achievements.

3 Good manners and gallantry.

You can say as much as you like that girls always choose tough and brutal guys, who are most often called bad guys. But even girls who really like this type will choose the person who will treat them with respect for a serious relationship. A dream guy is one who treats a girl like a gentleman, stands out from others with his manners and etiquette skills, does not accept rudeness and protects the weak. You can learn all of this if you just want to. Keep your emotions under control, do not allow yourself unacceptable behavior in society, try to treat the girl as a potential wife and mother of your future children.

4 Caring.

You can be the perfect guy from the very beginning of a relationship if it was customary in your family to take care of each other, if you were raised in such a way that you cannot help but take responsibility. But you can learn to surround your girlfriend with care from scratch. All you need is to take on her problems if possible, help with everyday life, be interested in how her day went, and how you can make it better. Gradually, you will get used to showing care and attention, and you will stop making any efforts for this. Everything will start to work out on its own.

5 Financial literacy.

You don't have to earn sky-high amounts for your girlfriend to be happy. But if you constantly do not have money, and you cannot be relied upon, then this is an obvious minus that cannot be ignored. Sometimes the problem is not how much you earn, but whether you have a source of stable income and whether you know how to handle money properly. If already in the middle of the month you are in a difficult financial situation, this is at least an occasion to think about how you spend your money. Start tracking your expenses and income, record where your money goes, analyze where and how much you can save. This will be useful to you not only in order to impress the girl, but also in order to experience as little financial difficulties as possible in the future.

6 Honesty.

Honesty is valued by everyone. If you can be honest with the people around you, you can say with confidence that they want to trust you. If honesty is not all right with you, find the strength in yourself and start saying and doing what you really want. Be frank not only with your girlfriend, but also with your family, friends, colleagues. This is extremely important, because if you periodically lie to, say, your boss, then the likelihood that you will not deceive your girlfriend is close to zero.

7 sense of humor.

A sense of humor can fix any awkward situation, can make a girl forget about her problems at least for a while, add +100 to your charisma and attractiveness. But if jokes are not your forte, you should not get upset ahead of time. A sense of humor can also be pumped if you pay attention to it. Start watching the performances of comedians, be aware of the latest memes and trends, and finally forget about jokes - now you can only make your dad laugh with them. Expand your horizons and in the near future you will learn how to joke cool.

8 Ability to listen.

Sometimes girls don't need your advice, even if it can really solve their problem. They just need you to listen to them, hug them, kiss them. Do not always try to keep the conversation going, interrupt, tell the girl that she has nothing to worry about. Listen, nod, ask questions when you don’t understand something, she will be pleased that her experiences are really important to you.

9 Loyalty.

Loyalty is probably one of the most important qualities of a man. If you and your girlfriend initially agreed on a monogamous relationship, then be kind to adhere to all the prohibitions that you have discussed. Forget about excuses, do not look for excuses for your actions, carefully control yourself and your emotions. If you truly love and appreciate the person with whom you are in a relationship, cheating is unlikely to ever happen. But if you nevertheless violated the approved agreements, then find the strength in yourself to honestly admit this. The girl should have the right to decide for herself whether she can forgive you, or if it would be better for you to leave.