Relationships with one partner seem to many to be a relic of the past. Dating services directly encourage polygamous relationships, or at least find a couple for a short time. Many guys simply do not understand how you can date the same woman, and then marry her and live together for many years. Against monogamy, arguments are usually made in the style of: "It gets boring quickly", "There is no variety" and "You need to take a walk while you're still young." In this case, we will also give our arguments, but in favor of monogamy.
1. She knows your external flaws well.
We all have complexes in terms of appearance, and we have to hide parts of the body so that other people do not feel hostility or disgust when looking at them, even if the fear of causing negative emotions is imaginary. But with a woman with whom you have been living for years, you can be yourself without hiding your shortcomings. If she likes it, then what's the difference. Is the birthmark on your back shaped like a pig? You have laughed at him a hundred times already, and she finds this part of the body even cute.
2. You can make mistakes without fear of being abandoned.
When a girl does not know you well, any strange action can be regarded as anti-brutality, stupidity or psychological immaturity, because of which she, without having enough weighty arguments in your favor, will simply leave you. A woman who has known you for a long time is aware of your strengths and weaknesses. Yes, she may be offended, angry or disappointed, but she has something to compare with, and putting on one scale all the good things that happened in your life and the stupidity that you did, she will most likely make a choice in favor of reconciliation.
3. You don't have to drive to the other end of the city.
Remember how you had to trudge to the outskirts, as she was finally able to find time, and you can have a romantic dinner. And then, early in the morning, go from her to study or work. And each time from a different location.
4. You don't have to flirt to get attention.
In a monogamous relationship, you've already won her attention, and she's yours. You do not need to pretend, embellish to arouse interest, you are honest with each other. Polygamous people are constantly faced with the need to go through the same seduction ritual in order to achieve their goal, and this is tiring. And you need to compete with other guys who are trying no less than you, doing stupid things for a woman.
5. A strong friendship will arise between you.
The more you get to know the girl, the stronger the bond between you will be, because you find common ground. People who prefer short relationships cannot understand this, because the only thing they have time to learn about their partner is what they like to eat and what kind of movies to watch.
6. You look serious in the eyes of other people.
We understand that this argument is not relevant for many, because they do not pay attention to how society reacts to them, but still. Polygamous guys are not taken seriously, considering them windy and unreliable. In large companies, when choosing between two equally suitable candidates for promotion to a managerial position, they are more likely to promote a strong family man, as he inspires more confidence in terms of reliability and loyalty.
7. There is a craving for personal growth.
When a girl doesn't know you well, you can goof off on her about how "cool" you are without doing anything to actually succeed. Anyway, this fairy tale will work, because the words do not have to be proved by actions. But with someone who knows you well, this trick will no longer work. As she grows as a person, you won't want to be left behind, and you will want to be the head of the family, something that is enshrined in the genes of all men. This means that you, imperceptibly for yourself, will constantly develop and become better.