Topics for the First Conversation

The most important part of anything you do is the beginning. Many people give up their ideas and dreams just because they are afraid to start or can’t make themselves do this. This problem can be noticed even in relations. Many people are afraid of the awkward silence that may appear between two people when they only start communicating. And so both of them feel uncomfortable, and almost make themselves look for at least something to talk about. But in this article you will find a few great topics that will help you not only to fill this emptiness in your dialogue but also to know your partner better!

One of the greatest things to discuss is what you and your interlocutor are looking for in relations. It is just sweet feeling, or maybe the plans for creation of a family? Do your plans match each others’? You will easily understand if you fit this person from the very beginning, or your views on relationship differ too much to continue.

Talk about your free time. People tend to spend weekends in so many ways, but if you plan to be together, you need to feel comfortable with hobbies and occupations your future another half have. The best option will be if you both have the same level activity, because it is really great when you two feel good staying at home all day long or spending the whole day walking around the city or even doing some extreme types of sport.

What are your interests in movies and books? Or maybe you are fond of series much more? Or maybe you even prefer to watch cartoons rather than some serious works? This topic is really broad, and you will discuss it for hours!

The same question that will fill the gap in your communication is the discussion of food preferences. Nowadays, it is very typical to have some unusual tastes and lots of limitations on products. You’d better know in advance the tastes of another person not to face too radical demands in future that might change your ration the way you may not like.

Ask your interlocutor about the happiest moment in her life. It will be really interesting for you to hear what she will tell you. This discussion will help you to understand the person’s values and what is really important for her.

Just don’t forget: your date, and your beginning of relations is not an interview. Don’t be too serious and pushy asking too many questions, or you may scary your love away! May everything be smooth and natural for you!