Qualities of men who attract strong women

What kind of woman is meant by "strong"?
This is not the woman who behaves harshly, uncompromisingly and unemotionally, and not the one who is offended by men and has a number of psychological limitations associated with relationships. We are talking about an independent, self-sufficient woman who provides for her material and emotional needs, knows what she wants from life, has her own vision and position. It's about a woman who loves herself, develops, lives in harmony with her inner world.

What is the difficulty with choosing a man?
Such women are very picky about men, picky about details, they understand human nature, and in order to consider a worthy, in their opinion, candidate in a man, they need more than one month. Usually such women start with friendship if they feel that they can trust a man and that it is not boring to spend time with him.

Masculine qualities that attract strong women:

Passion for your work
Strong women are extremely turned on by men who are fanatical about the "work of life", who consider their occupation or business a vocation, and always talk about it with "fire in their eyes." Usually such men use artistic means when describing their business: “I gave up everything to do this”, “I invested all my capital in this business”, “I didn’t sleep at night to succeed”, “I did it for such and such a price”, “I succeeded after so many years”, or talks about the process itself, about how he organized his team, what results he expects and what he has already achieved.

Education and manners
Good education, erudition and ideal manners always distinguish a person from all the rest. In addition, strong women read a lot, and, as a rule, complex deep literature. Why do they like this literature? The books that sink into their souls are always those in which one of the characters is somewhat similar to them or to the ideal of the man that they represent next to them. Think back to your school days: you liked negative characters. Why? Because they are complex. And strong women love to get to the bottom of the matter, unravel men, study their nature and play various intellectual games. These characters are united by extraordinary sophistication, politeness and good upbringing. It is these men who attract the attention of strong women.

Participation and interest
Strong women like it when a man sees them as a person, and not just a sexual object, when he treats them with sincere curiosity. And if a man only pretends that he is interested, a strong woman will immediately feel it and, most likely, completely stop communication. The interest of a man is manifested in the fact that he remembers what a woman says, he can ask clarifying questions, pays attention to details, compares the evolution of her outlook on life, feels a change in her moods and is not afraid to speak frankly about it. And in general, she is not afraid of frank conversations about intimate things. And in response, he tells her stories from his life, thus showing his trust and favor.

Spontaneity and sensuality
If a trusting relationship has been established between a woman of this type and a man, it is important for him not to delay with determination. But here it is very important to share a thin line, namely: to distinguish courage from arrogance. A man should not rudely interfere in his personal space, but if he expresses a desire for tactile contact (lightly hugs, touches his arm or puts his head on his shoulder), you should act in response. Hug if he does it first. Take the hand if it touches the first. If she accepts such signs of attention and instead of recoiling, sits down or comes closer, here you already need to move on to the next stage - spontaneity and sensuality, somehow hug first when you meet and hold the hug for a few seconds, kissing on the cheek or forehead, take a hand on a walk or hug on the go, especially if it's windy outside.

But you don’t need to ask if she’s cold and if you can take her hand: you just need to take it and do it without warning. It is important that a man is not afraid to show spontaneity and sensuality in dealing with a woman, if he is sure that the woman is favorable to him and she is comfortable with him.

Empathy and sense of humor
A man who knows how to successfully joke and make a woman laugh always has the highest chances. After all, making the strongest woman laugh is not easy. In this case, a man needs to be extremely careful with black humor and ridicule, because women can regard this as neglect. Best of all, laughter comes from certain situations known to both of them, discussion of surrounding events with a connection to the personal, puns, witty quotes from books on funny and relevant life situations, light irony or friendly humorous “jokes”, but without malicious intent, not suggesting the humiliation of a woman or mockery of her.

And without empathy, it’s hard to imagine a long-term relationship. Each of us wants to feel that his joy or anger is understood, shared in an ecological way and helped to survive difficult and happy times.