We all play certain roles and act according to rituals that have been established for many centuries. The same applies to relationships that, at their beginning, when one partner tries to win the attention of the other, are no different from mating games in nature.
Considering that even today most dating begins at the initiative of men, because nature intended it that way and it is so established in society, some women, when faced with high attention to their personas, use mind games. These are prudent and deliberate attempts by one partner to manipulate the psyche of the other and control his actions. It may seem to you that you yourself make decisions and perform certain actions according to free will, but this is not so.
Most girls don't use these methods, and in order not to run into one of the few that use mind manipulation, you need to know about the most popular women's mind games.
1. Imaginary inaccessibility
It is one of the most popular games that is equally distributed all over the world. Its essence is that a woman makes a man believe in his own impregnability and encourage him to conquer the fortress "by force". Of course, by strength we mean putting in a lot of effort. It is interesting that at the same time a woman may like a man, but she will not only not show it, but will even create a kind of halo of slight contempt.
Typically, this mind game is practiced at the beginning of courtship, as well as in the early stages of a relationship, as a rule, to test the endurance of a potential partner. What he is ready for for her, how far she can go in her manipulations and so on. Often such mind games are used only to amuse one's ego, to please oneself with the thought "this guy will do anything for me, like an obedient dog." At the same time, she will not have any interest, and even more so mutual feelings, only a cold calculation with a thirst to satisfy commercialism or egocentrism.
Remember that healthy relationships involve mutual interest. It is quite normal when a girl, when meeting and on first dates, does not open up and looks cold. She, unlike you, has many admirers, and she is careful in her choice, if only because she is afraid to get burned again, running into a man who needs only flesh. But if you are twisted to your heart's content and there is no end in sight, then it is better to forget about this option.
2. Mixed signal demonstration
If the previous manipulation has a short-term perspective, at least in relation to adequate men who think not only with the lower brain, then this one is quite difficult to recognize. The principle of a carrot and a stick works here, when a woman in turn becomes soft and loving, then tough and even cold. At certain moments, when the guy is already starting to give up, the girl suddenly becomes friendly to him, and he has a second wind. Maybe she finally melted under his attempts to win over, and these games will stop. But no, soon it becomes cold again, and so over and over again.
Such emotional swings make a man be in constant stress and try even harder to win the attention of a woman, because he is not sure that this time he can turn her from a smiling, pleasant person into a tough warrior. Such self-doubt deprives masculinity and at some points turns a man into a kind of servant, waiting for him to be given a tip.
3. Love Bombing
The direct opposite of the imaginary inaccessibility, which is aimed at those men who are not used to female attention and are not active in trying to win a girl. This mind game is to convince a man of his exclusivity and that a woman shows genuine interest in him. Such psychological pressure allows you to confuse the guy and make him believe that he was incredibly lucky to meet this particular person.
This love bombardment is sometimes described as a "demo mode" or trailer of sorts. Some trailers show bright enticing shots, and in the cinema it turns out that in a short passage they showed all the most interesting things. Here is the same situation. At first, you will be surprised by so much attention. But gradually, when a woman sees that you are "ready", she will begin to reduce the degree of feelings.
Usually such mind games are used by women who like the very process of winning the attention of a man and his deception. Yes, girls also enjoy conquering peaks.
4. Gaslighting
One of the most dangerous manipulations of consciousness. If we talk about classic relationships, then in them one partner makes the other feel that something is wrong with him. From the point of view of female manipulation, this does not look like an insult to your masculinity, but rather a mild allusion to it. You will feel insecure, not understanding what is wrong with you, why you are doing everything wrong.
In addition, with this mind game, a woman can make you question your own judgment in order to gain control over your mind and make you trust her more. Basically, gaslighting is used to gently turn a dominator into a subordinate, gradually reducing his confidence in his abilities.
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