Listen to Each Other

Relations mean work. Of course, they are not like the work you visit every day to earn money, but the efforts you put to build your mutual happiness. It is quite difficult for two different people to come together and live pleasant life and strong love. When your feeling wake for the first time, they blank off everything around. They don’t let you understand that your another half may even have some flaws, because none of us is perfect.

When the time passes, your love will fade a little bit. This is the rule, and there are no exceptions. And love will be replaced by life. You will stay together, make your future, and from time to time you will face those flaws of each other that may make you feel sad and even stressed out! However, your love, your feelings to each other will help you find the solutions for any problem you may face.

The best and the only way to find out what is wrong in your relations is to speak to each other. However, be ready that at first when you ask your lady “what is wrong?” she may say “nothing”. Don’t accept these words are true, or she will become even more abused and upset! This is some kind of a female game that you will have to survive. Give her a few minutes and hug her tightly. After this she will start melting and will move to the second stage.

Here will be two variants. In the first, she may burst into tears. This doesn’t mean that she tries to manipulate you. This is simply psychological tension that she reveals. Crying makes a woman feel better. It doesn’t always mean that she feels really bad. She gets rid of bad emotions and feels more stable and calm. Hugging will help here too. Just stroke her head and let her feel that you are by her side.

After this, or instead of crying, your lady will finally start speaking. But be ready that she will throw an avalanche of claims and demands. Women tend to accumulate everything that displeases them, and reveal everything at once, so their grumble may include everything: from her displease of you leaving clothes in the places where they shouldn’t be and finishing with the fact that you haven’t had a vacation abroad for too long. Here your task is simply to listen to her and to take into account everything she says. There are surely lots of ways to be more attentive and to find the way to get rid of unpleasant moments that make your lady upset!

Finally, you may sit together and speak about everything that you have heard. Find the solutions and offer something for this. Also, don’t forget about yourself. Talk about the moments that are not feeling right for you, because both of partners should feel comfortable and happy in relations!