Each healthy and stable relationship sooner or later results in marriage. This is an important step that unites two people on the more serious level. However, in real life marriage differs from the one depicted in books, movies and on the Internet. Marriage is the mutual life of two people who are actually very different, because our spouse is the stranger whom we choose to become the part of our family due to various feelings and reasons. And thus before uniting your lives in marriage, you should discuss a few aspects and questions that may sound not too romantic, but without them your mutual life will not bring you any comfort and pleasure.
Before tying the knot, think about the finances. According to statistics, it is the finances that are the main reason of the majority of divorces. Of course, it is said that you can even live in love in a cottage, but when it comes to reality, it turns out that money are important, that there are so many things that require it. And if you live together, your financial problems will also become mutual. So, before considering marriage, you need to discuss how you will share your income, will you have two budgets or one, consisting of all your money, or maybe you prefer you lady to be a housewife and never work. This is a serious question, and if you clear all things up with it, your marriage will have much more chances to be successful.
Another concern that is often brought up in almost all families is everyday arguing over some trifles. Of course, we all may have bad mood that sooner or later results in some quarrel just because we were madly irritated, and your another half cooked the dinner not the way you wanted it. And so starts the fight with finger-pointing. And the quarrel may bring up to surface all small insults that you have been kept in your soul for really long time and that were spoiling your relations. And all this happens because of your silence.
We are different, and what may be normal for one person can turn to be not normal for another. If you feel that something doesn't satisfy you and is wrong for you, it is better to discuss this calmly without keeping silence, because be sure that the situation will be repeating until you let another person know that it is not pleasant for you. But everything should be done calmly and with mutual respect. If you feel that your another half isn't ready for the discussion or you hear phrases like “this is the way I am and I'm not going to change no matter what”, maybe this is not the person whom you are looking for to become your spouse.
Think over if you are ready to support your another half no matter what. There will be lots of trials that may try to weaken your love. For example, if one of you gets ill and another will have to take complete care about everything and everyone. Are you ready for something like this? And don't forget that you should always respect your another half, as well as simply understand if you receive everything you need from your relations. You must feel if it is good and positive for you and doesn't bring any harm or damage. Marriage should be the happiness for both people.
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Yes, it’s true. Marriage is very serious and important step in our life. So we need to discuss all this questions to build strong relationships.