How to Find Love Using the “Couch Theory”

This witty approach suggests setting aside emotions and acting pragmatically.

What is the "couch theory"
This is a pragmatic approach that avoids many of the emotional pains associated with trying to find a mate. They can be used by both men and women. Moreover, its basic principles will work both in online dating and in person meetings.

The essence of the "couch theory" is simple. You compare how you look for a partner to how you choose a sofa. If you couldn't buy furniture using the principles you use to find a life partner, then the scheme doesn't work.

How to apply the "couch theory" in practice
Here are five basic rules.

1. Go where they sell sofas
When you need a sofa, you don't expect it to magically find you while you're at home. You also won't hope to accidentally stumble upon it while walking in the park. On the contrary, you expect that it takes effort to find the perfect sofa.

Similarly, there is no point in taking a passive stance when looking for a pair. That's why:

Go to places where lonely people like to spend time.
If you don't like the crowd that gathers there, go where you are more likely to find a person who will interest you. For example, if you want your partner to be creative, sign up for a pottery workshop. Not only will you have a good time, but you may also meet someone.
Don't count on randomly meeting your perfect partner on the subway or in a coffee shop. But on Yeronical it is quite possible!

2. If the sofa was not found in the first store, go to the next
Treat your search for a partner as a project. Don't give up after your first attempts and keep looking. Try to be creative. If anything - open the website of VeronikaLove and get acquainted with the most gorgeous brides. This will expand the circle of acquaintances.

3. Don't be afraid to look desperate
When you go to a furniture store, you don't feel ashamed because you don't have a sofa. Then why should you be ashamed to admit that you don't have a date right now?

Do not be embarrassed and ashamed of your searches. You do not need to play games and be cold to the person who is interested in you in order to awaken even more interest in him. Stay friendly and open to people who like you. This will increase your chances of finding love.

4. Choose what suits you
You will not look for a sofa in stores that you cannot afford or that do not suit you for other reasons. This means that you need to be realistic about who you want to see next to you in the future.

Do not look for a partner in a bar if you want him not to drink. And do not waste your time on those who are clearly not interested in a relationship with you or are already engaged.

5. Use your strengths
Before you buy a sofa, you will most likely want to make sure that it will fit in your room and blend in with your decor.

A friend of mine said that his strengths are faith, a clear moral compass, and courtesy in dealing with people. I advised him to look for places where you can meet women who would appreciate these qualities. He stopped looking at bars and found a match among the ladies on our website.

Try to do the same. maybe you will find the love of your life there.