How to Behave on the First Date

Many of the tips that we share in this article apply not only to the first meeting but to all dates in general. But on the first date, they will be especially helpful. Taking them on a note, your first date will definitely go off with a bang and lead to a second no less pleasant meeting.

Take the initiative
Women prefer men who can be relied on, that is, pack leaders who can make decisions clearly and without delay.

A man can listen to the wishes of a girl, but, as a rule, they can be rather vague and he will have to make a choice on his own.

There is no need to unnecessarily pry where she would like to go, women may react to this, say, not entirely positively. Believe me, if a woman wants to go to a specific place, she will definitely say about it or give a very lucid hint.

Be confident
Women have a very well developed sixth sense and observation. We can say that often they really see right through men. There is nothing wrong with that, this is their mechanism for choosing the best male.

One of the most important qualities that women value in men is self-confidence. If a man is not confident in himself, a woman will definitely feel it. In this case, she will either be disappointed in him or, if she likes him very much, she will play along and go to the meeting.

Self-confidence is a very important personality trait that affects a person's entire life.

Become a source of positive emotions
Positive emotions are the basis for communicating with girls. Women are very emotional creatures, and your task is to create the maximum variety of positive emotions.

Be original and reverse. Most girls are invited to a cafe, and you invite her to go to the theater or to an exhibition. For greater effect, study the subject of the exhibition, interesting facts and stories related to this topic. Any girl will appreciate your erudition.

An awkward silence
There is sometimes a pause in the conversation, which is also called awkward silence. As a rule, this happens when the interlocutors cannot continue the conversation. Often, young people try to fill the pause and start a new conversation by asking questions without stopping, which begins to resemble an interrogation that annoys absolutely all girls.

In fact, there is no “awkward silence”. There is silence and, separately, awkwardness.

Awkwardness is entirely up to you. When there is a pause in the conversation, the girl will look at you to understand what is happening, if she sees your excitement and attempts to come up with a stupid question to continue the dialogue is bad.

And if she sees that you are silent and enjoy what is happening, be it a walk or hot coffee, she will understand that there are no problems and reasons for excitement. This will be further proof that you are in control. And if she previously experienced a slight awkwardness, she will get rid of her.

Take an interest in her inner world
You shouldn't ask primitive questions about what kind of music she prefers, what kind of movies she watches, and the like. After asking a few general questions, you will understand what she does and what really interests her.

And already starting from this knowledge, ask questions and develop the topic. You will more and more discover her inner world.

Such behavior will cause strong sympathy because very rarely anyone is interested in what her thoughts are really doing.

Don't rush things
Calm, only calm. This is the best advice for a first date.

Nowadays, when everything happens very quickly, everyone is trying to drag the girl into bed 20 minutes after the first cup of coffee. Let's say briefly if you hold out for a couple of days without it, she will drag you to bed herself.

Just have fun chatting with a lovely girl.

Kiss
No need to rush into a kiss. He does not have to be on the first date, especially if the girl is not ready for him, you will find yourself in a stupid situation.

Remember, when a girl wants to kiss a man, this is quite easily visible in her behavior. This happens unconsciously, and you need to be able to notice it.

This can manifest itself in different ways, but there are also common signs that are characteristic of most girls. For example, almost all girls gradually close the distance. If, when you say goodbye, you stand very close to each other, this means that the girl lets you into her personal zone, her comfort zone.

Of course, in addition to distance, you should pay attention to other factors: her emotional state, the direction of gaze, breathing, and so on.

The main thing is not to rush, and you will feel all this. Yes, and it's not superfluous to darken the girl once again.

VeronikaLove wishes you good luck, and we are sure that your long-distance relationship will turn into something brilliant and heartwarming in reality!