You have finally met your significant other! You were chatting for a long on VeronikaLove and send many letters. And now you have had your first real date! But now the time has come for the second one!
If the girl agreed to a second meeting, then either she liked you, or she gave you a second chance. A well-thought-out second date will allow you to win her heart and get consent to a new meeting. But where do you start? The key to success will be an invitation received on time, interesting topics for conversation, and following some tips that will allow a girl to get to know a man better.
When to schedule and how to ask a girl out on a second date
By default, it is believed that a man should call 3 days after the first date and call for the second. That is, during this time, the girl will not worry if she does not receive a call from you yet.
You can call a day after the last meeting: she will have a day to replay the first date in her head and decide whether she will go to the second. You don't have to invite her to a second meeting right away - you just need to find out how she is doing and chat about general topics.
The next appointment can be made in a few days or a week later. It depends on the employment of both. But the next meeting should definitely be no later than 7 days later. Otherwise, the young lady may think that the man still has someone else or that he does not really like her.
If so far there is no opportunity to meet or the second date will not happen soon, until this moment you should call up at least once every 3 days in order to keep in touch. This will reduce the risk that the young lady will accept an invitation from another person. If you keep in touch, then the girl will come up with a continuation of the story in advance and will assume that she is already busy with you.
What to talk about on a second date
On a second date, a guy and a girl already know a lot about each other. Now is the time to find out if they are looking at life in the same direction. This will help avoid conflicts in the future.
The questions can be very different. Ask what you would really like to know. If you've had a history of unsuccessful relationships before, try asking the girl how she would behave in any given situation.
The main condition is that it should not be interrogated with partiality. Develop a theme, move from life to films and books, tell yourself.
Often men make a serious mistake - they let the woman talk endlessly for herself. If on the first date you did not manage to properly tell about yourself, then after the second date you may no longer be.
To win the young lady's interest, invite her to jointly answer the "questions leading to love." A couple of decades ago, an American psychologist put together a series of questions, the answers to which can make even strangers fall in love with each other. This will be an interesting experiment for both and will allow you to open up properly.
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