In the middle of the last century and earlier, gender roles were clear: the man was the breadwinner and had more power than the woman, who was the “keeper of the hearth.”
However, times have changed, and many girls refuse to take a passive position. On the contrary, they want to dominate the relationship and control everything that happens.
Such a position in a relationship can be inherent in a girl by nature - she genetically possesses a set of qualities and personality traits that contribute to this. On the other hand, the desire to dominate often arises from upbringing: when a child had to take on “adult” responsibilities from an early age or his parents were overbearing, which influenced his behavior.
There are several advantages and disadvantages of being with a dominant girl that you should know before asking her out. It is also important to understand that it can be difficult with her, but this can also be overcome if you behave correctly.
What are the advantages of a dominant girl?
Strong women are beautiful and attractive. They can cope with many things in life on their own, and are not afraid of difficulties and obstacles on the way to their goals. Dominant girls have several great advantages.
She's a leader
It can be boring in a relationship with a passive girl: she never knows what she wants and puts the responsibility for decisions on your shoulders. In addition, this approach leads to resentment and fatigue.
A dominant girl, on the contrary, speaks openly about what she wants and knows how to make her own decisions. She has enough leadership qualities to both defend her opinion and come to a compromise with you.
She has her own passion
A dominant girl knows what she strives for and what she dreams about. She sets goals for herself and knows how to achieve them, and also has sufficient motivation not to give up.
She loves her life, career, hobbies and friends. Therefore, she will become not just a romantic interest, but also a real companion if you value self-development and try to achieve more.
She knows what she wants from men
It’s easy to communicate with a dominant woman: she will talk without hesitation about what she wants from a man, and will also note what things she will never tolerate in a relationship.
On the one hand, it may seem that the specifically stated standards and expectations are overkill and bias. But on the other hand, it’s unlikely that you yourself would agree to less, knowing your worth. Therefore, the demands of a strong girl in a relationship are completely justified, and if you are right for her, you can build a strong union.
She knows how to plan
A dominant girl can easily plan a weekend, book vacation tickets and wisely manage her free time. She can keep everything under control and get out of difficult situations with ease.
You can easily rely on her for planning and know that everything will be okay.
She's independent
Sometimes men are lazy, which drives women crazy. But for a dominant girl, this may not matter much, because she is used to handling everything herself.
Of course, no one is saying that you should relax and load all your responsibilities onto her. But you can be sure that she would rather do something you accidentally forgot herself than “eat away the baldness”, waiting for you to remember about it.
What are the disadvantages of a dominant girl?
Like all people, dominant girls have a number of disadvantages.
She may not give you a say
A dominant girl can kink with control. For example, she will leave you a list of tasks that need to be completed within a certain time frame and will expect you not to disappoint her. Or he will limit your access to finance if he takes over the distribution of money himself.
This may make you feel more like a little boy than her boyfriend. But it is worth knowing one important nuance: dominant women do not respect men who are weaker than them. Therefore, despite all the control, she is unlikely to consider you irresponsible or a weakling. But she secretly loves that you let her be in charge.
Her assertiveness makes you feel like you're not masculine enough. Since the days of cavemen, men have had a primal need to be the breadwinner and head of the family. It was important for them to be needed and receive the respect of their women.
You may feel less masculine because a dominant woman is as strong as you are and does not adhere to the behavior patterns described above.
She may have unrealistic expectations
When a person is dominant, he may overlook some things. For example, not considering how his behavior and expectations affect those around him.
A girl can be so caught up in her own desires and needs that her demands can become completely unrealistic.
How to Deal with a Dominant Girl
Some men may find it difficult to cope with a dominant girl and build a relationship with her. But there are some tips that will help you do this.
Don't put all the responsibility on her
You can easily give in to temptation and place all the responsibility on the shoulders of the dominant girl. But this way you only reinforce her habit of controlling everything.
Don't forget: despite the fact that she wants to be in charge, she is a girl who is actually weaker than you. And she is unlikely to solve some issues without your help. You should not relax, be lazy and give up all your responsibilities, otherwise you may lose her respect, as well as her.
Don't let her take you for granted
A dominant girl may start to take you for granted. This makes you feel like she doesn't value you at all.
If this happens, let the girl know that you will not tolerate disrespectful treatment of yourself. Sometimes it is precisely this kind of conversation that helps her “return to reality” and correct her behavior.
Be honest with her
Honesty is not the last word for a girl who is used to dominating. She chose you because she feels comfortable and safe with you.
But if you undermine her trust with lies, she will easily leave and build her own life.
Support her
No matter how self-sufficient and proactive a woman is, we should not forget about support. You don't have to try to take on her worries or solve her problems.
A dominant girl will be pleased if you note her achievements, praise her for successfully completed tasks, or simply give a compliment that will tell you about your feelings.
Use humor to tone down her bossiness Dominant girls tend to be bossy and too serious. To diffuse tension, try to act light-hearted.
Express your thoughts in a light manner, use humor or sarcasm if it makes the girl smile.
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