There are a lot of complaints on the Internet from men who believe that their girls have lost attraction to them. A much more important topic is raised much less often - the loss of respect. If it is not there, there will be no attraction, no passion, or anything else. As soon as respect is lost, from a stone wall behind which you can hide, a man in the eyes of a woman turns into a weakling.
There are several reasons why a girl might lose respect for you. Avoid them, so as not to become the subject of gossip with disrespectful phrases and comparisons that are not in your favor.
1 Emotional immaturity
Women mature faster, at least psychologically. While guys are hanging out in online games or jumping on rooftops at 14, girls of the same age are already thinking about something more serious, albeit less fun.
Of course, when two adults enter into a serious relationship, this happens after the end of puberty with its emotional surges, therefore, as a rule, there is no desynchronization between partners. However, some men can remain emotionally immature even at 25 and older and look like older children who are only interested in entertainment.
And no, we are not saying that everything should be done with a straight face. It's about everyday life, how you behave outside of your moments of rest. When you constantly choose solutions that are more characteristic of a boy than an adult, this does not make the girl feel the way you expect.
2 Lack of ambition
No matter what they say about modern technology and the evolution of consciousness, people for the most part remain the same savages who ran across the savannas and lived in caves. For men, traits such as kindness and caring are considered instinctively attractive, while for women it is courage and ambition.
Many do not understand the importance of ambition and prefer to go with the flow wherever the river of opportunity takes them. But this goes against the grain of masculinity, since such a strategy of adjustment involves a subordinate role. Seeing that you have no ambitions and you just exist, the girl, if she is strong, and not a downtrodden gray mouse, will be unhappy at first, and then stop seeing you as a man. And no, this is not self-interest or mercantilism, as you might think, but a healthy desire. In the depths of her soul, every woman has a craving for strong men, and if you do not strive for anything, at least in your dreams, she will understand that this will always be the case.
3 Lack of self esteem
Roughly speaking, this is the same classic “rag” that everyone who is not lazy wipe their feet on. When a guy overindulges other people and even bends to their will for his own benefit or out of fear, this immediately gives a huge minus to masculinity. Even if you look like a brutal male, but behave like a little frightened boy and do not have an ounce of self-respect, you can forget about harmonious relationships. The girl, seeing how low you have fallen, will lose all interest in you, because again, she, like you, has instinctive attitudes.
Self-esteem is very hard to earn and has to be constantly developed. But once you stumble, and that’s it, you are no longer perceived as a classic stone wall behind which you can hide.
4 Regular lies
Lying is a useful tool to use. Moreover, it is not always negative, and, for example, you can lie to save a life or to surprise a person. In this case, we are talking about everyday lies, for which there is no justification, except for the fear of something or the search for personal gain.
Every time you lie out of nowhere, for example, that you didn’t forget about her birthday, but you yourself remembered it only after her words, or when you say that you were in a bar only with guys, although girls went with you, you you trample trust in yourself deeper and deeper into the dirt. Gradually, she will become more and more suspicious, because how can you trust you in serious matters, when you lie even about the fact that you removed the buckwheat from the stove into the refrigerator, and she just magically got out and stood back on the burner.
Of course, sometimes it’s worth lying when, for example, she doesn’t look very good after an illness, but you want to cheer her up. But don't do it in normal situations, it's better to be honest.
5 Lack of courage
Whatever the advocates of social justice may say, but gender roles have not gone away, and there is nothing wrong with that. Of course, this is not about the suppression of one partner by another, but about simple things like the same courage. No matter how strong a woman is, she instinctively seeks male protection, just as a man, obeying nature, desires female spiritual warmth.
When these basic desires are not satisfied, a signal arises in the subconscious about the wrong actions. This is especially true of courage, because women associate this quality with masculinity. And no, courage is not recklessness when you stubbornly attack a person with a knife in your hand, but a reasonable manifestation of your willpower. When you hide from problems behind your girlfriend's back and try to push their solution onto her, then in her eyes you fall below the baseboard. Instead of the role of your woman, she begins to feel like a mother who must take care of her child and teach offenders a lesson.
6 Subjugation to her will
Let us explain again that in this case we are not talking about the suppression of a woman by a man as a norm. We are talking about partnerships, when democracy reigns in the family, and all important issues are discussed. But when a man begins to indulge his woman too much and turns into a henpecked woman, even to a mild degree, a strong girl will not tolerate this for long. She needs a man equal to her personality, who will appreciate her desires and treat her with respect, but at the same time is ready to argue and even go to confrontation to protect his own interests.
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