Naturally, girls are very different: there are sophisticated and feminine, there are also "tomboys" - hooligans, girls showing the character inherent in guys. There are "I-artists" - they really often do not understand at all, and this is not even bad, they just exist too. Therefore, it is difficult to sum up what they want, because there are quite extremes. There are girls who are driven only by maternal instinct - they want children, as soon as possible, from someone. There is another extreme, when a girl just wants money to be supported, and everything else is not important at all or is deeply secondary. We will consider something average, so to speak, something that most girls want and expect.
1. She wants you to listen and hear
These long stories of her about all sorts of nonsense, when the essence can be conveyed in half a minute, are not to annoy you. She just wants to talk about everything. It can be taken as a sign of trust, although there is the concept of "girl's language". Girls need communication more than men. Of course, they leak secrets, but this happens for natural reasons. You just need to remember this once and for all: such is nature - and that's it. In general, the meaning is this: if you stop listening to her, she will find someone who will devote time to this “nonsense”, someone who will not interrupt her enthusiastic stories and constantly push her.
There is another concept: a woman loves with her ears. Usually this is taken literally: it seems like you need to shower a girl with compliments and promises - this way you can deceive her or win her over. On the one hand, this is true: up to a certain age, these creatures are incredibly naive. On the other hand, there is also a deeper meaning. Watching Hollywood news together and other delights of everyday life are important, but simple conversations about this and that are just as important. She just wants to talk to you - at least sometimes at such moments, listen, do not interrupt and do not push. An hour of your time isn't worth that much. This is really important. Put yourself in her place - how would you take such an attitude when your word is not worth a penny?
2. She wants you to be the man, not her
Here we come to one of the main female paradoxes. She wants you to consult with her, to listen to her, she even wants to be the initiator sometimes. But! At the same time, she wants you to make decisions, so that you still remain a peasant. Here the male brain sees some kind of contradiction. How is it - a girl wants to express her opinion, wants to be consulted with her and take her opinion into account, but at the same time, a man still has to make a decision himself? What is the meaning of this? It is very easy to explain. Lipstick - did you see how many colors there are? That's right: one is red. But this is true for men, but for a girl there are 482 colors, and they are all different. About the same alignment with emotions: you have clear gradations like “sadness”, “resentment”, “anger”, “joy”. She can have a tender sadness drenched in warm nostalgia, spiced with a pinch of bitterness, and it all brings a smile. If you give them the right to invent words and give names to emotions, then in six months there will be several thousand such names.
3. She wants to be surprised, nice
Girls are very fond of surprises, preferably pleasant ones. Surprise is understood as a surprise - you know, the same one from childhood, immaculate. When you enjoy even the smallest things. Here girls retain the ability to enjoy such trifles all their lives. Any relationship cools over time - it is impossible to constantly be in a state of koinoiokan (this is that short period when you have not yet fallen in love, but you are about to fall in love). The most amazing and probably the warmest period for the inner world. You already sleep on different sides, and maybe in different rooms sometimes (and this, by the way, is not bad). Such a break from each other is necessary, but she still loves surprises. Do not forget about it. You can please with mere trifles, only you need to do them without showing off, from the heart. Just wash the dishes, for example, or throw in the laundry. If you clean the windows on both sides, you will gain hero status for a few days.
Therefore, they are happy with flowers. Usually a girl has some favorite flowers, but in general they are just a symbol of attention - just a gift, a surprise. Make them not only on holidays - after all, a surprise differs from a gift in that it is unexpected, sudden and pleasant. A small surprise is better than a big gift in the emotional food chain. And the girls are over-emotional - they need to be fed with pleasant surprises.
4. She wants to believe you
There are times when "lying for good" is applicable, and there are times when you can't lie. Directly under no circumstances. There are no specific examples - you can only catch the very special note and understand that this is just such a moment. If you listened to it more often, you would learn to catch such notes and tones, otherwise there is no one to blame. In general, given women's over-emotionality, their perception of lies is logical. For her, your lie is a mini-treason, included in the same “color range”. If you lie at the moment when the girl wants the truth no matter what, know that the lie will be revealed one day, maybe in years, and the conditional resentment from the deed will be multiplied by the resentment from the lie itself. It may not show up outwardly, there may not be any scandal and all that, but this lie will remain between you forever. She will not forget her, there is no way to make up for this crack. So learn to hear it, be a man and tell the truth when necessary.
Ijaz khan
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