How to calm a girl from a distance: support is the key

Thanks to modern technologies and means of communication, it has become much easier to support a girl in difficult times at a distance. VeronikaLove does everything possible to help you keep in touch 24/7 no matter how far you are from each other! Do not start communication by finding out the reasons and persistent questions: just “be there” via chat and letters... Or better, just talk, show participation in her mood, show in your own words that her condition is important to you.

Here is some algorithm to help calm the girl from a distance:

• Express concern about her condition in an affectionate manner and be prepared to encounter an aggressive reaction from the girl because aggression is one of the forms of our psyche's response to stimuli. Be tolerant - this is temporary, show tenderness in affectionate expressions and caring phrases.

• Do not try to laugh if the girl suddenly bursts into tears! The irony, in this case, is one of the most inappropriate forms of sympathy, and such a reaction can lead to the fact that a person simply refuses to communicate with you.

• Say as many words of comfort as possible: tell me how dear the girl is to you. After all, it is important for everyone to know that he is dear and needed by someone. Remind the girl of some kind of event in your life, trying to shift her attention to the positive aspects of her.

How to calm a girl with words from a distance

• Surprise the girl: it’s easy now. The most elementary thing is to send her through letters and chat nice pictures, kind quotes. Find out if home delivery of flowers that can be ordered through the Gifts on VeronikaLove, and the girl will receive it really quickly. Or - if you know the lady's culinary preferences - order her a tasty one. Of course, seizing stress is not the best solution, but this is a real opportunity to cheer up a girl at a distance and make her a pleasant surprise.

• If you do not know the reason for the girl's bad mood - try to find out: what if she actually has something very painful, and she needs not only moral support but also the help of a doctor.

• It is more difficult to provide assistance at a distance, but in any case, it is necessary for the girl to understand that her problems can be solved, and you will gladly lend her your shoulder and be a support. In addition, it will be easier for a girl if she can share her thoughts with someone: after all, sometimes you just need to speak out and the solution to the problem comes by itself. There are no unsolvable situations, no matter how trite it may sound - it is important to convey this idea to the upset soul. Trials are given to everyone, and you need to endure them with dignity, but it is more difficult to do it alone.

• No need to tell how others behave or how a girl should behave. You will not achieve anything, except for obvious irritation with such words.