Aren’t You too Controlling in Your Relations?

Relations mean harmony and mutual respect, as well as tolerance in many aspects. However, we sometimes can’t even understand how it happens so that we are doing something wrong regarding our significant other. And as a result, there are no more two people but only the one who controls everything, and things must go only the way they want. Aren’t you a bit too controlling over your beloved Slavic lady? You might think that you know better, but she is also a grown-up person and has her own points of view.

The first obvious sign that you are over-controlling is that you tend to start criticizing each time your partner does something wrong. We can make mistakes, don’t become angry at once. It is better to help rather than criticize. Besides, your significant other may already feel unpleasant with the fact that something went wrong, and you will only make it worse.

The next sign of controlling is not letting another person communicating with anyone but you. The isolation from the companies. Especially saying that you don’t like her friends. This is the classic situation. But remember that your beloved lady knew her friends long before she knew you, and your control may spoil your relations.

Asking your another half where she is every minute is also now too healthy. Of course, this can be explained with you feeling worried, but keep yourself in hands. Your lady is not a child, she has her own business and places to visit. She wants to go wherever she wants and meet whoever she needs. Of course, there should be some limits, and if you are together, you need to stick to your promises, for example, to be at home the time you said. And in case if this time has passed, then you surely may start worrying and asking where your lady is, as if it is the late evening, this may simply be dangerous.

Don’t pull all the blanket of attention to yourself. Remember that your beloved woman has other people in her life. Parents, friends, maybe children. And they also need her attention. If you become a whirlpool that sucks in all the lady’s attention, she will simply become tired of this.

If it comes to decisions that involve or influence both of you, in no way should you decide everything by yourself only? There should always be a discussion for the better variant that fits both of you, not only the one word that is yours. The personality that is suppressed by such attitude will start resisting you, and as a result, your relations will be spoiled.

So, it is better to simply enjoy your relations and not to press of your lady with everything only you want to have in them.