Finding the One and Only

The world keeps rolling only due to love. Of course, there are many other feelings, but love is the one that pushes us to commit some actions, makes us uneasy and forces to keep moving until we reach something or someone that makes our life full and complete. Because of this it is said that we are looking for “another half”. Of course, there are opponents who claim that we are all complete beings and we physically and mentally can’t have the second half, but everyone who was lucky to meet “the one and only” knows that feeling when you become accomplished.

How can you understand that the person you have met is the one you need? It is very easy. VeronikaLove wishes to give you a piece of advice to not miss your chance. There is one way to pay your attention to the person with whom your feelings will be mutual. Choose not the one who talks to you easily and openly but the one who behaves shy and worried, and the one who is very nervous when you are around. In the majority of cases such behavior shows that there is something that attracts that person in you, and she starts feeling shy. You too may feel something like that, and this is the first sign of love arising between you.

Actually, there is no standard scheme that will let you know that you have reached your goal. There are many cases in which people around may say that the couple doesn’t fit each other at all, but they manage to live happily the whole life, to have children and grandchildren and never to feel that they don’t fit. This is only because they learned how to accept each other. There is a great wisdom in the ability to simply accept the people the way they are. And flaws should not make you lose consciousness. Even if it the one that makes you crazy, you can always work together on it instead of blowing each other’s minds on trifles.

Another thing that will help you to stay together with your beloved person is the ability to remain your past in the past. This includes everything: starting with your quarrels that you might have had with the significant other and ending with your ex-relations. Repeating and talking over and over again about something that used to make you unhappy will not bring happiness to your life and your love. It will only break your heart and thus relations. Yes this doesn’t concern issues that keep repeating. Such situations need discussions and searches for solutions. If you can’t cope alone, there are always family specialists available who will help you to clear your mind and love.

Sexual attraction is not less important. Those people who claim that sex is of not great importance in relations are completely wrong. Living together means always staying side by side with another person. And here appear such surprising issues that may destroy everything you have. Even no matter how great the person is, her body smell can repel you. And there is nothing you can do with this, this is simply not your person. The same is with sexual relations. But here you can always work on each other, be the teacher and the student at the same time, and love will guide you on your way.

Don’t get obsessed with the idea of idealism. It is impossible to reach at all. You either live the way you are, reaching at least some level of comfort when you feel secured and happy or don’t bother at all. Your attempts to turn yourself into the ideal another half and especially to turn the beloved person into such will only ruin what you have. Stability and support is much more important than showing others that you fit their expectations. Your love is only yours and no one else’s.