What to do if a girl stops responding to your messages

Sometimes guys have gone through this unpleasant experience when a girl they like suddenly stops responding to messages while texting on VeronikaLove. You can wait and wait for hours, or even days, only to receive any notifications except the ones you were hoping for. This makes you feel disappointed and abandoned, and also doubt your attractiveness.

Well, there are a few things you should do if a girl stops responding to your messages.

Give her a day
Let's say your message was delivered this morning, but it's already evening, and the girl still hasn't responded. Don't rush to text her phrases like "What's wrong?", "Where are you?" and the like.

Give the girl a day to respond to your message. There are a million reasons why she might ignore your messages, even if she checks in from time to time.

Perhaps she simply didn't notice your message, is busy with work, and has the social network on in the background for the sake of music, or is checking how intrusive a young man you are. But it also happens that a girl is simply bored with the conversation you were having, and she decides to end it in this way.

Whatever the reason, it is worth sending a follow-up message after twenty-four hours. You should not make her think that you demand immediate responses to your messages and are too closely monitoring her online profile.

While you are waiting for an answer, you can devote time to something useful and pleasant. But you should not inquire about the girl from your mutual friends, constantly visit her page, like a dozen of her photos or otherwise give her signals of your interest, as this looks very suspicious, which can make her stop corresponding forever.

Don't ask if she got your text
If you want to appear confident to a girl, don't ask her if she got your text, implying that you haven't received a response. Maybe your last conversation has tired her out, and drawing attention to an unfortunate topic of conversation again is a bad idea.

Besides, this approach to returning the correspondence to the previous course rarely works, and looks a little pathetic. It is best to start a new conversation with a simple "Hi!", a funny picture or a question that might interest the girl, and see if she responds.

Drive away negative thoughts
As a rule, when we are worried, a swarm of unpleasant thoughts begins to swirl in our heads, most of which begin with the words "what if ...".

There are many ways to continue this phrase - from the girl rolling her eyes, sighing and thinking about how to get rid of you when she sees your messages, to the fact that she has been dating another guy for a long time, but does not want to tell you about it.

Often, everything turns out to be simpler and more positive than you think. For example, she could have gone to the store and forgotten her phone on the nightstand in the hallway.

If you want to do the right thing when faced with a text ignore from a girl, especially if it lasts less than a day, stop winding yourself up and coming up with crazy scenarios in your head.

In the end, she will either answer you or not. But your nervousness can cause obsessive behavior towards her or a waste of nerves, which is also not healthy.

Don't text her friends
We already mentioned that you shouldn't inquire about a girl who is silent in correspondence, and here's why.

When you text her friends to find out if everything is okay with the girl and why she doesn't answer your messages, you look either possessive or rather pathetic and clingy, especially if the girl's silence is short-lived and you are not yet officially dating.

Besides, it is unpleasant when rumors are spreading behind your back, and such behavior is a great way to involuntarily spread them. Friends will tell the girl that you were interested in her, and they may lie through their teeth or start advising her on what to do. Why do you need such problems?

And not all girlfriends will be honest and brave enough to tell you bad news. They may entertain you with false hopes that will end in great disappointment.

Don't take it personally
Even if the girl doesn't answer you for a long time, including to a repeated message, don't get upset and don't take the situation personally.

Perhaps she has a boyfriend, so you will have to give up trying to "get through to her." Of course, it's unpleasant to receive such a silent refusal, but still, you shouldn't be too persistent in such a situation.

It's better to endure her silence with dignity and communicate with other girls than to beg for her attention and write to her day and night in an attempt to figure out what happened.

Never exacerbate negativity
Perhaps the girl is angry with you for something or she simply did not like your communication. The worst thing you can do in such a situation is to exacerbate the negativity and write her something like "Well, keep quiet." Or sarcastically comment on her latest photo, hinting that she is not as good as she seems.

Even if you are very upset and outraged by her behavior, it is better to remain silent than to write her something offensive or say that you are fine without her. Such behavior is a great way to finally ruin the relationship, as well as become the object of gossip with friends and unpleasant rumors about yourself.