How to write the first letter to a lady

The main task of the first message is to interest the girl, make her pay her attention to you. You don't have to write an entire sheet of text or come up with complex greetings to do this. Enough 1-2 well-chosen simple sentences.

Remember to say hello and introduce yourself by the name your friends call you. Avoid overly familiar forms. Yes, the page already has your name, but presentation is a simple form of etiquette when meeting someone.

Do you know what excuse to come up with for communication? The desire to communicate is already a great excuse for the first message. Do not intimidate the girl by talking about the desire to start a family and have children, even if you are really looking for a future spouse.

Look carefully at her page - pay attention to books, music, films and publics. How is a girl different from others? What is she proud of? What unites you?

Write what you saw on her page a photo from a recent concert of your favorite band or that you noticed a selection of Nolan's works in her videos. Show her that she is not just another girl you copy-paste the prepared text to, but that she is special. She will become at least interested in what kind of person you are, if you point out the community of interests, and she wants to continue communication.

What you can't start a correspondence with: the most common mistakes
The most common mistakes are as follows:

Platitudes The first message must be original. You cannot start a conversation with cliches or hackneyed phrases, for example: “Hello! How are you?". If you write something like that - in 9 cases out of 10 she will simply ignore the message;

Hints of a sexual nature. Moreover, this includes not only messages of the type: “I would like to look at you up close!”, But also “compliments” to the girl's figure, even if she herself put herself in a swimsuit with a profile photo;

Use of slang expressions and obscene words. Even if you never cross again, keep face and do not stoop to such a thing.

And don't forget to be yourself, as one day you will meet each other, and your love will flourish!