VeronikaLove site wishes you only the best, and we want you to meet your significant other. But before you find her, you need to be sure that you know how to attract her attention and make her interested in you. Here are a few ideas that attract ladies in men.
To get started, understand one simple thing: if now you are not able to interest the girls, then you have to change something. Perhaps these changes will not be easy - the result depends on your persistence and level of self-knowledge. We will provide a complete list, but you are free to choose the appropriate items yourself.
Another important point: remember that women are also people. Accordingly, to become more attractive to them, you will need to become, in principle, a more interesting and communicative person. This means that, first of all, universal human qualities and communication skills swing, and only then do behavioral strategies regarding girls appear.
So, here's what you need to take care of:
- Appearance. The first impressions are most lasting - remember? The first opinion of a person is formed in 7 seconds. You may not even have time to speak, and a person during this time already decides whether he is interested in at least say hello to you. Appearance should be neat, well-groomed and attractive. To achieve this, take care of three aspects:
1. Clothing. It should be clean and ironed, modern and stylish. Confident ownership of casual is often enough, but you are free to experiment with appearance if you are confident in your sense of style.
2. Body type. It is not necessary to have a figure of a seasoned athlete or bodybuilder. But the absence of excess weight, muscle corset and posture will make absolutely any person more attractive.
3. Skin and hairstyle. A couple of decades ago, this could not be taken care of at all, but now more and more men tend to take care of themselves. To withstand the competition, make a stylish haircut, tidy up the beard, if there is one, choose face products suitable for your skin type. It is not as difficult as it might seem, and the requirements for the appearance of men are still much less than for the girls' bodies. Remember hygiene, take care of hair, face skin, arms, and legs.
- Mind. Intelligence and horizons are important things for communication. Looking good, but not entering the expanding ranks of smart people, you will not get many chances for a long and pleasant conversation. In the era of the Internet, not learning - at least suspicious. It is not so important what exactly you are very passionate about. It is important to burn your own business and be curious about current social trends.
- Confidence. Another important parameter, without which it is not impossible to communicate, but difficult. You can choose a lively girl who will be touched by timidity. But everyone loves healthy self-confidence.
- Communication skills. Active listening, the ability to shut up on time, speak on time, masterfully flirt, ask in time or tell a story will make you more attractive, even if you missed the first points. But manners and communication skills most often go hand in hand with intelligence. Build them together: it’s easier and more efficient.
- Respect. To yourself and others. Without respect for yourself, you won’t start to like yourself - you can not think about girls here yet. To feel your value to others, you must first believe in it yourself. Respect for others saves you from rudeness and meanness, which is also an undoubted and very big plus.
- Determination. This is already a little more than self-confidence: you not only realize your right to various actions but also successfully implement it. Not a critical parameter, but determined people tend to do more.
- The desire for self-development. It is not enough to read ten to twenty books and to draw the last months of news from scientific sources. You should always be interested in and strive for more. Try it and start with an interesting area. You will like it.