The base of relations at the distance is the dialogue. It should be open, and always active so that your love and relationship could get the direction for the further development, and you have the possibility to know each other better. But what you have now can always be improved! Your communication will become the tool for the best relations you have ever had in your life!
First of all, you should never mark the beginning of conversation. Everyone knows about that scary phrase “we need to talk.” Usually, instead of the wish to communicate and discuss, it evokes the feeling of panic, and some people may immediately feel the rejection and desire to get away from the talk. So, if you need to discuss something, make this harmoniously. Let your communication flow, even if the goal is not very pleasant at the beginning.
It is believed that talking before going to sleep is the very best possibility to improve your relationship and to tune each other on the positive attitude. Yet, it is very important not to discuss problems at this moment. They may sometimes lead to quarrels, and thus you will have spoiled moos and will not manage to fall asleep, and also will feel angry. Better have fun together, speak about your sweet feelings and enjoy the time before going to bed.
People have different level of need in communication. Ideally, yours should match. You might have met such couples where both partners chat endlessly, and also those who can keep quiet for days but are still deeply in love. For having healthy relations, you should take into account the need of your partner in communication. In some cases, it is better to provide your beloved another half with some personal space and not to force to communicate, as this will not bring any pleasure.
Don’t press on your beloved person in your wish to talk. Take some time, allow your partner to get prepared to listening to you, to gain some concentration, and maybe even to talk first! We all have many problems, and our family are the only people who can hear us and who can understand us no matter what, so it is natural to wish to share something with them. But don’t be so selfish, you are not the only and the main person in relations. There are always two of you.
And remember that your communication really needs calmness from time to time. When you don’t have anything to distract you from this, when you just stay together and give all your attention only to your significant other.